Perceptions

The way I see everything!!!

In-Divi-duality

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Ive been thinking offlate… (Dont laugh Yet!!!) I was thinking how difficult it is to maintain indivuduality… Ive been pretty upset at my findings!!! Its ironical how many ppl claim to want you ‘for who you are’… The next time a person tells me that, i swear ill box him on his face!!! Nobody wants you for ‘Who You Are’!!! Infact Nobody wants you!!! Everybody wants what you can offer… Thats the truth!!! Call me cynical! But isnt that true??? Ask yourself!!!

Will you even cast a second glance at that fat dude who has just streaked his hair red??? Unless it is to laugh at him???
Will you even bother telling that Not So Pretty silent classmate/colleague of urs a Hi??? Nope!!!
Will you bother making thatr fresher who is just out of campus and has joined your team comfortable??? Just a ‘Hi.. hows it goin?? ‘ NO! Freshers are supposed to feel intimidated… Using buzzwords… jargons… and then n0ot caring a darn, even when they come asking for help! Try doing the same to some experienced canditate who knows what is what!!! and bloody, half the ‘experts’ run away!!!
Reservations, Creamy Layer everything is a farce… Relationships are rare and superficial!!! Everyone is a fake!!! So am I! I fake that I am cool with everything! So do u! we all close our eyes… and see what we want to see… We’ve become statistical analysis tools, which analyse the Pros and Cons of another person, and then brand him… and if we have something to gain from him, we accept him!!! Else, he is an Outcast!!!

Individuality is non existent! Nobody likes individuality, although we all claim to possess it! Are we not moulding ourselves into various shapes that is acceptable to our peers? to the society? WHen a dude speaks peter English (Which means, fluent proper english), we call him a wanna-be!!! When our brother does it… Its cool! WHo are we to brand people? What gives us the right? The right to freedom of thought, expression and speech??? Why cant we just change our calculating mind… why cant we just be innocent???

Shame on Me! Shame on US!!!

Btw, Happy Diwali! 🙂 (Faking here too)

P.S. I HAVE NOT STREAKED MY HAIR!!!

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Written by shivnarayan

Saturday, October 21, 2006 at 9:02 am

Posted in Uncategorized

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  1. freak…

    whats up with you man..is that a break up thats venting out the spleen.. shed/shred this perspective cos if carried it would make everything appear farce..

    the coolness index is determined by the beholder..by your history..a fat guy with streaked hair may actually look cool (Shane Warne did).. as for the not so pretty girl in class being offered a hi..do u forget the Shanmugha days..A bevy of beauties is the last thing it could boast of..

    and ya..you blog is refresher not a trauma

    Shashi Rajasekaran

    Thursday, October 26, 2006 at 10:02 am

  2. @Sash: Thankfully it was not a break up which vented the venom… Trivial it might be, but then, i guess there are certain things leave a mark, that can result in a cynical attitude towards… well…everything. Call it frustration, or plain irritation… We all take pains to wear a mask… a fascade! Constructive criticism is becoming a thing of the past… petty politics cant be flushed out of our system. And most importantly, the degree of character is determined by a lot of things… except character! 🙂 Wishin we all didnt have to go our ways!!! 🙂 The future of a relationship (any relationship) is determined by the past and not the present! And thanks a zillion for the the praise da! 🙂 Glad you liked it!

    Shiv

    Thursday, October 26, 2006 at 5:02 pm

  3. i agree! everything is a facade.

    Ambika

    Saturday, November 11, 2006 at 2:06 am

  4. renovated and updated my old blog!!

    here’s the new link: http://ammuscanvas.blogspot.com

    Ambika

    Saturday, November 11, 2006 at 6:22 am

  5. heyy
    why so much trauma?? People still can be innocent! not everyone is calculating precisely coz of their ability to love, hate and actually maintain relationships that are not necessarily “profit-oriented”.. profit of any form really.
    think about it

    s_h_r_u_t_i

    Sunday, November 19, 2006 at 2:54 pm

  6. @ammu: Welcome to the company! 🙂

    @shruti: Well, i guess it was one of those days when u are totally low… but then, i still believe that it is a MAN EAT MAN world and only the shrewdest survive… 🙂

    Shiv

    Friday, December 15, 2006 at 8:51 pm

  7. Hmmm.. I always thought “individuality” was about being unique and not about what others want from you..

    juvenile delinquent

    Wednesday, December 20, 2006 at 7:07 pm

  8. I believed it too… but then, isnt there a point in life where what others say begins to matter? besides, i crave for acceptance… isnt it human to crave for acceptance? who doesnt? 🙂

    Shiv

    Thursday, December 21, 2006 at 12:47 pm


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